I forgot the dancers name that I enjoyed yesterday. Small, black woman. "A" cup, both nipples pierced; soft silky skin, very sensual dance, very full contact, but I forgot her stage name. it wasn't heaven and any help would be appreciated.
I see someone is bragging about the girls RESPECTING him. Thats cool. I guess. Personally though, whether, they respect me or laugh at me, if I am enjoying feeling their naked body its kind of irrelevant anyway. Attaining RESPECT in a strip club goes where on a resume???
Went in on Thursday and to my surprise they have $10 dances 5-7pm. Did get 4 or 5 from one girl and well worth the money.
Surprisingly a blonde came to me and asked if I only come during $10 times. I played along and said yes Then after telling her she proceeds to tell me she does not do $10 dances and offers me a $60 nude dance. I said I would be interested but not for those prices. She tries to negotiate but I tell her you are just asking way to much and it is not worth negotiating because we are so far off
I hope guys out there are not paying that as it just makes everyone else pay more in the long run.
I've known her for years and through three clubs. She is Brazilian. Some of them may tell you differently, especially the blond ones (a few claim to be Russian) as they are trying to separate themselves from the pack...
How many Lebanese women do you know who speak Portuguese and translate for the other Brazilians who don't speak much English?
Your right though, it doesn't really matter as long as they get the job done!
if you go to a Broadway play what happens with actresses outside the theater is irrelevant, you just buy your ticket , enjoy the show, and same with dancers, in my case i buy dances now and then with certain favs, and she doesn't ask me why i havent been there more often and i don't ask her. so i don't care what she is or isn't doing with her sugar daddy or how much he's paying her. Keep it simple and you will enjoy the dancers alot more
At another club, in a different state? Is this the truth or jealous people with bad intention? She has no friends at fantasies, because no one knows what happen to her. Even frank jr. Doesn't have a clue and that was his main squeeze, but I see he move on to other girls.
i don't care what they tell yu, how pretty their smile is, how much they hug you, tell you they miss yu, how special they say you are to them, its all an act, and sometimes i even feel bad for some of you guys when you leave the club and all that cash and i hear some of comments. maybe its best you never know anyways
they don't show up most of the time because they don't need the cash and that's because the disgustlingly rich sugar daddy is taken care of everything - so long as he can get his dick hard and shove it where he wants to
There is no respect beyond treating people like human beings. You don't get more respect for spending lots of money or for spending no money. Stop kidding yourself. The guys tossing the word "respect" around on this board are just cheap. Stay home and watch free porn.
How many times can you post about a stripper who is GONE!!!!! Amber has moved on, DO THE SAME!!!! There will always be the guys who don't want to invest the time, money, ect..... to find out who puts out. Let them ask, tell them if you want. I won't. I've invested the time and cash to find out, I AIN'T TELLING!!!
As far as Enigma is concerned, leave him be. As someone pointed out, he wants attention. If you give it to him, He'll keep coming back.
and don't think i'm just a cheapo either as i got different strategies for a number of hotties, with one I just buy her one drink a month and some 2 dollar groping at the rail random times and she and I are always talking and letting me grab her for free at the bar, and she knows i rarely buy dances from her, and no chamPAIN room either. They know I know the deal and when regs come into the club they go into hustle mode big time, and that's (yup its true) why i get RESPECT, but keep in mind i want to keep the club and employees happy so i tip the bartenders well and buy lots of drinks, and believe me these bartenders know everything that happens the club.
What I am is a paying customer. Nothing more and nothing less. The dancer in question here is irrelevant, it is the continuous dissection of the minutia of a strip club that I take issue with. Who the fuck cares if a dancer has regulars or not. I could give a rats ass and I'm quite sure that the vast majority of customers feel the same way.
All good dancers know how to extract a customer from his cash. They will do it from whoever they have to. It doesn't matter to them if the guy is a regular or a first timer. It's all about the cash. Nothing more and nothing less. That approach is not relegated to whatever woman you feel like picking on. It is the way all dancers approach the job.
As pathetic as you may find that exotic veteran dancer, her sugar daddy, regulars, and "friends", I think we can all agree there is nothing more pathetic than the people who find it necessary to trash others anonymously. What do you do, spend your time in there keeping track of what she is doing?
You must either be a customer she can't be bothered with or a dancer who isn't in her league.
i'm nobody's friend, in dayshift alot, tip the help nicely but with dancers i got different strategy, for example with that super exotic hottie who has been here years, figure may be once or twice a month i do a 2 for 1 or a 10 dollar dance, and 2 bucks at the tip rail more often, so that way i get a good feel of that nice ass and excellent fake boobs while she hanging out waiting for her fool regs. Believe me even when the club is busy i can get a free feel. While she don't like me she respects me because she know I know what her hustle is. I might drop 50 bucks a month on her but I aint dropping 1000 a month like her ITC regs or multi 1000's a month like her OTC sugar daddy
let's see the ass one more time. should come back for a special guest appearance. at least we could touch her unlike the porn stars that come in for special appearance. it's school vacation week, you don't have to teach this week, stop in for some extra money.
The only guys more ridiculed than a RIL are the guys who hang out all the time and never spend any money on the dancers. You losers may think you are their "friends" but it's a joke. The dancers only spend a few minutes with you to get a free drink and move on. They don't ask you for dances anymore because you are not worth the aggravation. Ever notice that when it's busy you get NO attention...
especially RIL (regular in love) types who they see as the biggest fools on the planet. You would not believe some of the conversations I've heard between dancers and between dancers and staff. These customers dropping large sums on certain girls are considered week kneed gullible dupes ripe for being conned. No doubt when they get home to their loser X box playing boyfriends or with certain girls their drug dealers - they must brag about their latest bullshit strategy they're working on
of the white girls who gives extras? of the black girls who gives extras? of the spanish girls who gives extras? of the brazilian girls who gives extras? of the others who gives extras? very curious to know so I know who to spend my money with.
There has to be a better term for "Regulars", or a break down of levels of "regular-ness". I propose the following.....
Every week, at least once a week for 5 years or more
Every week, 1 or more times a week, for 10 or more years
same as above for 15+ years
Legacy+ former employee of the club you go to
This is my suggestion, feel free to comment or sugest other names. BTW I'm an Enigma. I go to talk to the bartenders, and bouncers. I haven't gotten a lapdance unless it was bought for me, and have friends that are strippers. I've been to their houses, know their family, and they buy me drinks.
My god! I don't care what they say to u, they're not your friends. I am more of a friend then they are. Look how stuck up autumn and asia was, they will sit with a regular (sucker) all day long, take all the $ they can. Won't even go on stage and if they did they stayed with one guy at the stage. But when they needed $ and the heavy hitters wasn't in or they was mad at them. They started asking everybody else for dances. Autumn would come up to me, I wrapped my arms around and place my hand on the ass squeezing for ass juice then laugh and said no thanks. As she walked away, I grabbed that ass again, all for free. Everytime she walked by I touch her stripper ass. Now you don't see me crying that she gone or feel betrayed by a stripper
Every girl in these clubs give extras! They may not do it with every customer, but they sure do it with some. Stop the bullshit! For the right money and the right customer every one of the girls will give up the extras. That's a fact.
Valentine was the word cutoff in the title. The point is, ( if I've got the right dancer in mind, ) is while she won't play with your dick, she will play with your heart. Of course, its all buyer beware anyways in these clubs, and the name here is particularly applicable: Fantasies
Anyone who can't separate fantasy from reality doesn't really belong in a strip club. I'm supposed to give a shit that hot naked women can get guys to fall in lust with them and spend all their money on them? LOL, too funny...
Who is crossing the line? What is the line? Are you saying every girl has to give extras to make money? That's bullshit! There are still plenty of girls in this club who don't participate in the extras game. They don't need to.
no name but she she will work the emotion part, Note that the cons being worked are getting a bit more sophisticated than is typical, and this could relate to the economy kicking down the last year or 2 in rhode island. Point is certain girls are crossing the line - way beyond
what they might have done previously
Yoda no idea why you find my attitude troubling. Its different than yours, but hey that's life. While I "like" the dancers I get dances from, I don't "like" them enough to pay 150% of the price of one I might like slightly less. I am a regular here and don't seem to have any problem with the women, even those with whom I no longer dance with. Talk to them all, buy 10 -20 laps and go home. I have no particluar "type", except 99% of the time I won't get dances from the women with fake breasts, which meant no dances yesterday with Asia, but with Tia.
I agree with poster below. Take it from me , I am not dumb, but got taken years ago. Use the head on your shoulders when going to any club. All can get something out of this , but if you make more of this then it is you are looking for a big emotional and money hurt !
These "strippers" are not your friends. Let me repeat this. "NOT YOUR FRIENDS"!!!. Dumbies, get your feel on, treat them for what they are, stripper, not your girlfriends. Autumn is laughing her fine ass all the way to the bank. She played the game well, she used everyone, that was her job, suckers. She was a stripper.
The advantage of being a"regular" is that the girls know you. I sit at the bar and talk to the bartender(s). The girls approach me, give thier lines, and I send them on their way. I have a few favorites, and they will take care of me and my friends. They will cut thier prices, and be more accomodating IF they see you more than once in a while. I get there at least once every 2 weeks. usually 2x a week. most of the time I buy my favorites drinks, no dances at all. but I get to talk to them for a few, and if you treat them like a person, not just a cock-jockey, you'll get a lot more out of them!!!!
Price is secondary, If your going to get special treatment!!!!
...belongs to any strippers complaining about doing $10 dances. $10 for a 3-minute songe equals $200 per hour. For women of, at best, average intelligence, and, at best, average looks. This place isn't filled with beauties that you should feel honored to have grind on your lap; it's filled with average looking women who grind and grope and suck and fuck. $200/hour is great for that, especially in one of the poorest states in the US.
Interesting comments about Sunday. I was there for 2 hours starting at 12:30. No offensive smells at all. Very few customers and dancers, but a good time was had by all. as far as cheap guys seeking $10 dances? I admit I am one of them. I was also one of the idiots who used to pay $30 for a far lesser dance when the economy was r ocking. It all evens out. The stupid people on Sunday pay $25 from 2-5, so they can "impress" the women with how r ich they are. Have at it boys, but I never seem to have a problem choosing between all of the dancers seeking my cheapie $10 dollars.
There was a new girl today ( her first day she said) named April. Cute face and HUGE fake tits. They were fake and they were spectacular. She said she is trying out different clubs in the area. She will be at Desires on Wednesday.
Frank Sr has retired, Frank Jr(not francis), and his sister run the show now.
That being said, I'd rather smell the bleach used to clean than the piss and other bodily fluids spilled on a daily/nightly basis. I can assure you that there is a cleaning crew there EVERY morning.
Also If your there when it opens, on a sunday, that means your one of the cheap SOB's that all the girls complain about !!!
I've been a regular in all the clubs in RI for at least 15 years. I'm glad to say I go here, Frank Jr and his sister have done very well running this club. They have made a clean, safe club that treats the customers and girls well.
As long as this club is open I'll be going here.
You guys are way behind schedule. Autumn has been gone for a while and she won't be coming back. She accomplished her goal and moved on as all dancers do. The next hot young piece of ass is waiting to take your money and steal your heart. All you have to do is stop whining on this board about a woman who is no longer a dancer and go to the club to find her.
She didn't want to hang with any of you. She took your money and was disgusted by most if not all of you. You were pathetic puppets she had on her own strings. Why do you think she doesn't reply to any of your e mails or pathetic attempts to contact her? You were her bread and butter and now you're all toast! Suck it up, babies.
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