Lack of choices; YES; most of the time resent; yes; no, they know, who cares; rarely but came once and I'm bi but prefer men; rarely, never works out; in the begiining, yes but now...; NO
tell us- why do this for a living? is it really worth the money? is it fun or do hate it and resent the guys? does this hurt your ability to trust or like men in relationships outside of work? are you living a double life or do your family/friends/boyfriends know what you do? is it ever a turn on for u? many guys that meet u at the clubs fall for u- do u ever reciprocate and develop relationships with them or is there a line that can't be crossed? is this something you've put a time limit on- ie-you'll save money for a few years and then do something else or do u get sucked in once u start? would you encourage a friend or relative to try this? thanks for sharing- we want to know what u think.
Thumbs up (Beth) , your way off. Although this club is nowhere in the class of Nude or Topless clubs in Texas or Florida, It had a comfortable feeling between customers and Dancers. If things got a little too friendly in the VIP. its between 2 consenting adults how far things go.Im sure not as far as some people think.
If the club comtinues this policy , then the should hire all TENS SO THAT AT LEAST WE WOULD HAVE GORGEOUS WOMEN
TO OGLE.Instead of the mediocrity that s thier now. Or give a rebate to customesr as well
since no touch started ive gone to a different club...that means the girl i used to always get dances with has gotten $0 from me now...i know u will say im only 1 person so who cares...but the lost $ do add up after awhile...think about it honey.
I think your perceptions are right on. You can test your observation by asking any dancer or customer the question: Would you want your daughter or any other woman you are very close with (as in family) doing this job? There is a certain amount of "forgetting" the obvoius answer to that question on both sides in order to justify doing this. 95% of these women have had MAJOR problems with their dads.
As a service to their customers the club is offering envelopes at the door. You can place your cash in them and designate who you want to receive it. That way you only have to waste your money, not your time.
i jsut want to let you guys know that the cameras have
always been there. Only the no touch policy is new. And
does touching a girls back really get you off?? The VIP is
private so if a girl will let you touch her it is up to her, not
just the club.
aww im sorry. i said MAYBE i was going to go in. I will def
be in Sat of next week, and Ill post to let you know whether
its Wed or Thurs that my class is; sorry to let you down.
Life's all black and white when you're 18. Ever suffer for years in a bad marriage? Ever have YOUR child say "Mommy (or daddy), all the other kids have one, can I have one too?" and YOU are just barely making enough to keep food in his/her mouth? Welcome to the real world where everything is connected to everything else and every no nothing is out to take potshots at you. Gray hair and wrinkles are EARNED by the survivors, when YOU'VE earned some, you'll have a different perspective and maybe something to say to the rest of us. We were all 18 once you know.
next week i will be working on wednesday and saturday
nights. but call ahead on wednesday bc i may have to
switch that to thursday depending on which day my night
class is going to be. If i can get my lazy butt up I'll be in
tonight too.
The town planning board has announced the demolition of
DD by end of August to make way for an access road for
the new condo development. With the lousy talent lately
and the new LD policy---who cares if this place is gone?
Just want to let you know what a great time I had with you and Joi in Union last week. My face still feels like it's in your luscious breasts!! You're HOTT beyond my previous imagination and I want to see you again soon! I'll call Joi to find out if she'll be upset about my being so hot for you, but she's gonna have to live with it!! :-) Tell her not to worry, though...there's enough of me to go around!
Buddy
p.s. Say hi to Talia for me if you see her.
There are some good hearted girls here or for that matter anywhere else. Here my experience is Cristina, Shayna, Andrea and Lola...real nice and friendly...No complains here
Legalizing prostitution would mean fewer marriages for the wrong reasons, less venereal disease and fewer unwanted children. More homes means more kids and more school taxes and congestion. More expensive homes means your children will never own one, and only you know why your husband won't bring his paycheck home to you. Yes, it probably would be a better world if people didn't want this sort of thing (both sexes), but legislating it away is the worst choice because, for their own reasons, right or wrong, people DO want it. And the "holier that thou" crowd usually have some ulterior motive or insecurity for their outspoken criticisms.
Its funny how some people try to impose their wiews by trying to disuade people to go to strip clubs. Maybe they are telling the truth that dancers think of us as losers. So what if they are, as long as I get what I pay for. And I will keep going to these clubs long after these dancers can't make a buck anymore. So in the long run I think they are really the losers If in fact that is what they think.
A) 18 yr old - if your not going to a stripclub again u must be gay.
B) Tony - of course the girls want your $ why else would they be here, for their health - u must be stupid.
C) The reason i come (innuendo) here is to see naked chicks, spend discrecianary income, and have a good time. So instead of blowing my $ on drugs, alcohol, smoking, gambling whatever, i spend it here. And if you are so poor that u cant afford it, you should of done better in school and got a real job.
you know ive said it before and ill say it again i think that CRISTINA is incredibly sexy and so unforgetable her sets are exciting to watch and she has got the face of an angel and looks like a godess , just to let you know i love it when youre there !
if the club is closing in 3 months then why institute the no touch policy now...anything should go...what should they care if they are closing anyway rite ?
The town planning board has announced the demolition of
DD by end of August to make way for an access road for
the new condo development. With the lousy talent lately
and the new LD policy---who cares if this place is gone?
Hey everyone, I just got back from vacation last night and
I'm going to be working tomorrow and Tuesday nights in
South Amboy, so if you missed me stop by! I don't know
what other days this week I am working yet, but probably a
lot because summer classes start next week, so I'll have to
cut down on working so much. Anyway, see you guys
soon.
what you are unable to see is that this is about your own values, inhibitions & hangups. you're judging. If you don't like it stay away and be true to yourself .
I really need to ask this question, then I'm going to stay out of the clubs and off of the boards cause this scene makes me feel bad.
You guys don't see this as a sick way for a girl to make money? And it doesn't bother you that after the girls are intimate with you and take your money they just move on to the next guy? I find it hard to believe that no one else feels upset by this, both for the girls and for the guys. I understand the charge but ultimately this seems like people sinking down to the lowest common denominator.
To Mike from the bar: I you really miss Chanel you can see her this Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday at a nearby non-alcoholic club. She's using the name Ariel.
here. They are great. If you are a stuck up dont come here. I like Cristina, Lola, Andrea, Shayna and Moleena. Why waste your time here if you dont enjoy their company. stay away from this board also
If a girl does this for a living and likes it, what does that say about her? Imagine your sister does this- how do you feel about it ? These girls must break their boyfriends and families hearts when their secret is out of the bag.
I spoke to a Dancer friend who works at the club and she said management is Totally paranoid. They are having problems with the town so they are trying to be cool and hopfully by the summer things can get back to normal.Unfortunatly this means the VIP is a total waste, but you can support your favorite dancer with a few LDS. Again beware of the eye in the sky.
It is not about taking your damn money. It is about a job. Thats how they pay bills...dummy. That does not meant that they do not have a heart. They are people like every one else. some girls such as Cristina, Shayna and Lola extremely fun and like what they do.
Ok Right now this club totally Blows.. No Touch Rule in VIP. Get the f out.. It was bad enough they charge 20 for 4 mins and you rarely got that. Most of the Time the dancer cut it short but at the least you got to hug and touch some leg butt. Oh well Goodbye DD..
For those who think that this club isn't going to be closing and that things will eventually get back to normal: I can already hear the sound of bulldozers in the distance. Hum...Hum....Hum........
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